Kshobita

Hi!  If this mainly refers to incompatibilities- like agitated combust mercury being incompatible w friends- does it mean with ALL friends all the time or there there’s room for compatible friendships in different settings? 
being friends from a distance and observe or accept may (and not sure about it) be easier than more personal karakasm like parent or lover situations. With parents you may accept the incompatibility once you grow, live w it and still love your parents but w lovers, you may have to just stay away from that kind of experience or maybe learn which type of settings or circumstances can work?