So a woman with Rahu in the 10th needs to take on inspired action even though it might not necessarily change how they feel. (Feeling a certain way is their security paradigm.) Does this suggest that they can take on the masculine role in relationship? Or that it is part of their Rahu path?
How does Rahu affect a man’s role when it is in his 4th? He needs to pause to know how he feels about what he is doing. So, this doesn’t mean that he should be in the feminine role necessarily, but does it say anything about his Rahu if he tries to be?
Rahu in 10th has to learn to manage their material lives, to be in charge of that part of life, and that is more masculine of an activity. Rahu in 4th a person has to manage their emotional life.
I believe that the domination theme is more seen in the 7th house. The 10th is more generally worldly, "out there", not only about the career and being on the top. 7th is about whose in charge, you or me? That´s my understanding. Having the Sun in the 7th myself...
Staffan