For men, Sun is more important than Moon, but on a mother- son relationship what can be done when moon is in neutral or enemy sign in most vargas?
not only that but in the rasi of a cancer lagna moon is in 12th, capricorn lagna on D4 and D12 is in 6th
D40 in 9th but enemy sign, Aries
on this situations what can mother do to improve relationship?
Thanks
My son (11 years old) has Moon in Aquarius, in enemy sign (Saturn in Virgo), his Moon is in an enemy sign in ALL the vargas, except for D45 where it's neutral. His moon is delighted by Jupiter though, strong DigBala and strong ShadBala overall. Now, we have a great relationship, we're very close and trust each other. Am not perfect, but am very loving and accepting. But, it's from my perspective, maybe internally, he feels differently, like am an "enemy"? So, definitely a head scratcher for me. My conclusion, after self-reflecting and self-observing, is that I should be more "martian" with him, find a better balance between loving and nurturing him and keeping him accountable and showing the tough love that is sometimes needed. It's a tough balance to find: accepting/calling him out on his mistakes and behaviors. There is a hidden side to the Moon, so kids pick up on what the mother doesn't show/admit, at least this is my experience, he is very intuitive re: how I feel and sometimes call me out on my (repressed) anger when I didn't even notice it within myself (but that's another problem all together lol). So, I guess the best advice is for the mom to be as honest with herself as possible!