Do people focus more on rahu after relashionsip

@ernst Also, when looking at chastity yogas, we looked at 4th from the moon, and Rahu, there was the worst. And for the sun, we looked at 10th from it, and Ketu, there is worst. So, like, if a person has Ketu in the 4th, and Rahu in the 10th, that makes that boy incapable of taking initiative, and a bit of lag with his masculine qualities, right? But if sun happens to be in the 7th, and we look at 10th from him, then Ketu is in the 10th house now, and Rahu in the 4th. Does that mean that the person is more initiative and does well as a male overall after they get into a relationship than otherwise? Like, what does that mean? That does have a meaning, right?

@ernst could u explain better please? What won't work out that way? Then finding a stable women? Is it because they become stable themselves after relashionsip?

Like is ketu 10th from sun good or bad? Like i know ketu hurts sun but in the 10th should be good right? Being initiative masculine there? Because it was good in 10th from lagna i remember..

@ernst Also, it's our Rahu on other people's planets, which give us of that planet's right. And our Ketu on other's planets, which gives us less of that. And it's other people's Rahu on our planets, then they get that planet right. I'm confused in this. Like what if it's one way like with lagnas only..

@ernst And what if our Rahu-Ketu falls on their Rahu-Ketu? This is an interesting thing which came to my mind. Now I imagine it brings us to an extreme and hurts us. But I imagine if their Rahu falls on our Ketu and our Ketu falls on their Rahu, it balances it out. And if both our Rahu's and Ketu's fall in the same house, it extreme and hurts both of us, right? A thought came to my mind and I was just wondering.