Rahu in the 9th
The aim is to be emotionally secure in oneself.
I have recently completed by 41st birthday and working on my 42nd year. The time period that Rahu will mature. I have Ketu in the 3rd in Capricorn and Rahu in Cancer in the 9th. I recently lost 2 good friends of 20 years as I requested that they spend quality time with me than to get distracted by their phone and to be respectful of me and my family member. I think I could have said it in a better manner or not say it at all and maybe not have lost their friendnship as the 3rd is a house of communications and peers. I am finally learning that these friends cannot make me feel good with their undivided attentions or being respectful to me. Eventually, it lies on me to make myself feel good.
I am learning how to swim at 42 for the 1st time. Having Rahu in Cancer, I am trying to overcome my fear of the water and I found it interesting that I am finally ready to face my fears at 42.
So in the "Healing Rahu and Ketu" video, Ernst would mention about "did you ever feel so bad about the ketu house that you feel suicidal or see no point in living?"
Yes. I felt that recently when I lost my 2 friends. That inspired me to take up swimming and to take responsibility for my own emotions and not be reliant on others to make me feel good about myself.
It was taught you would attract people into your life during each planetary dasha where their planets fall in the same sign as your Rahu. If your are completing your sun dasha, does this means that you can finally let the sun person go and severe all ties with them and move on to your moon dasha?
You will often find that a person will have the planet of a dasa that you are in or about to enter falling on your rahu, and yes, when that dasa ends, its easier to let go of them, and of course, its very hard to let go of a sun on rahu person!