Going backwards in the adityas

Ernst, you mentioned that going from Mitra to Aryama is regressing. I understand this on a spiritual level. So, how is one supposed to find a spouse then? My thoughts are that developing spiritually is beyond marriage but some people’s charts are very marriage oriented. And obviously spiritual leaders can be married. 

also, we may be helpless at some point. Not just temporarily but until death (hospice for example). Is it regressing to care for a spouse in this state? I think the answer is obviously no, but I don’t really understand the logic as to why yet.