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A few weeks ago I posted some musings about Jupiter that go into this.
To expand on that example of Jupiter and children, there are a few examples of long term studies that measure parents' happiness in terms of amount of sleep, free time, disposable income, etc. and even just self-reported happiness. In almost all studies this indicator drops sharply after the birth of a couple's first child. Yet, the vast majority of people also consider the birth of their child to be among the most meaningful events in their lives. When asked whether others should have kids, their answer is a big resounding yes. Why?
It's because a child gives your life purpose that extends beyond you and your own happiness. There are many people who indulge in Venusian pleasures galore and at the end of the day, their life feels empty. (Not saying people without children lead meaningless lives btw. There are lots of other Jupiterian purposes. I'm just using children as a very common and obvious example in this post.) My understanding is that it's because happiness without purpose is only skin deep and needs an external source to be constantly replenished. Many people live in circumstances under which they should be happy, but are quite miserable, because they have no raison d'etre. Conversely, there are people so destitute financially that live in constant communion with source that they experience true joy because they are rock-solid in their purpose. I'd say life without purpose is just a meaningless chain of potentially pleasurable, potentially miserable events. Life with purpose gives you a reason to do it and want to keep doing it that pulls you out of navel-gazing and focusing on yourself (at least that's what it's felt like for me, though I'm still only at the beginning of that journey).
Think about the last time you followed a creative impulse that seemed as if to come from outside of you. Lately, I've had those a lot with pieces of writing. It's like a bug that is whirring in my ear and asking me to write. It won't rest until I've done it. I do it, even when I'm tired or would rather zone out. Ever since I've started doing that in my free time rather than just consuming other people's content, I've started being so much happier, because I feel like I have another purpose. I feel content afterwards because I followed an inspiration that was innate to me and saw it to fruition and because I feel I can tap into that source again.
Also as an aside adding to the connection of children and Jupiter: There are studies that measure activity in certain parts of a person's brain before and after having children and for both mothers and fathers (provided they are present, of course) there is a shift that happens neurologically. Essentially, parts of the brain associated with doing detail oriented work shrink, while there is an expansion towards big picture activity. I don't know what could possibly be more Jupiterian.
Here's a quote from the article I mentioned:
"This relates to a second point, which is that there’s more to life than happiness. When I say that raising my sons is the best thing I’ve ever done, I’m not saying that they gave me pleasure in any simple day-to-day sense, and I’m not saying that they were good for my marriage. I’m talking about something deeper, having to do with satisfaction, purpose, and meaning."
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/11/does-having-kids-make-you-happy/620576/
Anyway, these are just my two cents on the subject. Maybe it helps.