Solving Mars Starving Saturn
With saturn mars its always about trying to change something or make something better that is just not getting better. Yes, children will be a big part of it. When saturn rules the 5th house a person has to learn to let go of their children and live their lives with less care, not more, but when mars is there with saturn its so hard to do. I have sat mars in 9th too and sat rules my 5th and its the hardest thing for me to do, neglect my kids, but I realized I have to start doing it or else i will be bad for them. They are 19 and 21 now and I still feel guilty if I go somewhere for a few days and don't take them with me or don't take the off time to stay with them and do something with them. Its really crazy. Saturn mars just loves to overdo things that just need to be left alone.