I don't think this post fits in this topic, but I wasn't sure where else to list it.
Even though I am thoughtful towards people, I have been noticing that I have a certain attitude towards Leo, and it is basically of 'just get on with it and do it'! I seem to expect them to just pick up the mantle and use their strength to take care of things and fix them.
I do not think it is the right attitude, but I do not know what is. So I would like to ask the Leo's in the house as to what would be a right way to approach you guys.
I know someone for 3 decades who has been going through a tough time ever since Rahu maturation 10 years ago, and I would like to help the person transition into their Moon card this year if possible. With Sun Proud, the stubbornness can sometimes be a hindrance when it comes to change.
In case you want to write to me privately, the address is manishahunt at hotmail dot com
Thanks.
I hope you do figure out how to approach them and help them move on.
I know of a certain famous Leo who needs to do whats best for the kingdom, accept reality, and MOVE ON!!!
Ok since I have five planets in Leo (including Sun) I just asked my wife your question, "How do you give advice to a Leo to help them better their life?"
She said, "You have to word it in a way that they think it is THEIR idea, like they came up with it."
Ha ha!!
But also, from personal experience, proud Leo's may need to be deeply humbled to change. This is what happened to me, a series of devastating life events humbled me deeply at Saturn maturation and then I was able to genuinely seek out growth and change. These sort of humbling life events are not something you can do for someone else... the Divine offers them!
But please keep us posted if the method I shared above works for giving your friend advice!
@rhiannon Thank you. As they say, two people coming together gives birth to a third energy. Is it distorted or is it clear? For me, it was getting distorted with this particular person. Your input helped me see things a bit more clearly. It seems that this person is triggering my Ketu. Thought I had overcome it, but transits in Scorpio seem to be bringing out deeper stuff in me this year.
With the other Leos, I intuitively trust that they will take action once they get it in their heads. Until then there is nothing that can move that fixed sign. So it is hilarious my trying to move this mountain that does not want to move in the form of this person ???? ???? ???? How ego-centric of me!!