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Will we learn attachment styles?

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Happy Monday, Ernst! I've been following your wonderful PAC videos and was wondering if we could synthesize what attachment style one might be (avoidant, anxious, etc)? If so, do you think you'll ever teach that? 

PS -- I began watching your videos a few months ago, and they've improved my life. Learning my own Lajjitaadi Avasthas has helped me better understand myself psychologically which in turn led to a lot of inner growth and healing. I'm really grateful to learn from someone so wise, experienced, and generous. Thank you so much! 

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Ernst Wilhelm
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Yes, its possible using the lajjitaadi avasthas, maybe I will get into it later in those course... 

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Hi.

When studying with Freedom Cole, he equated attachment styles with the Moon as follows:
- Moon/4th house aspected by/conjunct Saturn -> avoidant
- Moon/4th house aspected by/conjunct Mars -> anxious
- Moon/4th house aspected by/conjunct Rahu -> disorganized

Secure attachment is when the Moon and 4th house are associated with sattvic planets (Sun, Jupiter and exalted planets) in good condition and when the Moon itself is in in good avasthas.

I realise this is from a different teaching but thought it might be worth sharing because I find it works quite well.

Cheers

Chris

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@chrisvanderwalt Hey Chris! I apologize, I'm just now seeing this months later. 

This is very interesting, thank you for sharing! I have my Moon (in Scorpio) opposite Saturn so I have both avoidant and anxious tendencies. My Moon also squares Mars <1 degrees away. 

Luckily I have Jupiter in the 4th in GF dignity. 

Becoming aware of when I feel avoidant and anxious, letting those feelings flow through me, and acknowledging that it's the Child/Parent mind has been very helpful. 

Thank you again for sharing your knowledge. 🙂

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Wonderful, thanks so much! It would be so incredibly helpful if you did. 

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