Compability Audio 1
I do have my moon in a rakshasha nakshatra. That explains my difficulty with men.
I have not studied that. I am a 4 of clubs.
@stefanie It´s all as individual (at least almost) as any astrology chart and depends on where the planets and cusps work together, based on the placements at that moment. But generally speaking - though the placements may change it quite a lot - 4 of Clubs has a loner tendency, or rather "I don´t want to depend on anyone", indicated by Jack of Spades on the Moon card. Jack of Spades = the orphant, the Moon card = how we adapt to the world, so indeed, there is a natural tendency to embrace independence as a natural thing.
On the other hand the Venus card is 10 of Hearts, the "happy happy" card, which is a strong indication of wanting to be in a relationship, and possibly having a family too. And the overlying card of 4 of Clubs, indicating the natural goal, what we are naturally gravitating towards, is 6 of Hearts, which is another card that indicates "perfect love life" (in a cosy, loving way). Finally: 5 of Hearts on the Neptune card. That position is an indication of a longterm longing, something that we really want to bring to reality in this world (Ernst compares to a pregnancy). 5 of Hearts: "Improving emotional connections."
Finally you have the 8 of Spades on Rahu, the challenge card (what we are here to develop and bring to a high level): to find your own rythm, you own pace. You are generally not good at that until after 42 (rather the tendency is to feel stuck in the areas of life that are afflicted by Rahu), but after that you can bring to a high level and become very independent in that sense. But it´s alvays a theme of yours, something that you work on all the time, for sure.
So the duality being alone/having a partner is most certainly a theme for 4 of Clubs, perhaps the strongest theme of yours. One of my closest female friends is a 4 of Clubs, and she spent several years as a bachelorette, really wanting to find the right man, or perhaps: wanting the right man to find her. And when he finally arrived - well, they have been married for 30 years now and have three daughters.
????Wow! How did you figure all that with just knowing I am a 4 of clubs?
I am almost about to complete audio clip 8 for compatibility. I usually listen to these audios as I prepare financial statements. So today at work, I paused and thought to myself that with all these factors to study compatibility: stri drigha, vasya, Rahu, bha Kuta, yoni, etc; it is going to be nearly impossible for a couple to have good compatibility. There is going to be at least one factor that they may not be compatible on. From what I have understood, I consider stri drigha to be important for a woman and also the placement of the 2,12, 6,8 and 5 9. I was thinking with my moon in leo, I should choose a man with moon in Aries and quickly learn that is a bad choice. Having moon in a rakshasha nakshatra, there are very few men to have stri drigha with and also be a rakshasha nakshtra. My best bet from the nakshatra table is a man with Aquarius moon in rakshasha nakshatra. That is like one in a million ????