yes, i think the spouse would have a very strong personality and with 2 strong personalities and a terrible D-7 and a 50/50 Navamsa, things will come crashing down. My best planet is Jupiter as it gives me the knowledge and the wisdom to navigate through life and avoid the calamities that created by Mars...
I learn that Spades are a little bit difficult suit because it is the birth of life. With birth comes a lot of struggles to understand our needs, struggling to survive, a lot of physical burdens and surrounding psychological growth within the Spade suites. My QS has an underlying card of 10D and overlying card 8D, and i was told 10D is the "Wheel of Fortune" in the COT, and it gives a lot of financial potential and in terms of skills, money etc.. The 8D is a phase where at least among the hundreds of seeds that have fallen from the fruit, at least one seed will find the right kind of condition, humidity, water and nutrients to grow to be the next generation. The Cycle of Life will continue. It is a lucky card in the sense of being at the right place at the right time...
The Ecliptic card 8H is the the path that the birth card is walking on. I was told this is not an easy card because #8 is connected to Rahu as a Graha. Among the Hearts, #8 requires a bit of maturity before you can master it. I do have a lot of internal growth to work on and it will take a life time to fix all the bad avasthas or at least fix some of them and some will have to be worked on in the next life time... The QS becomes the QS because of the 8H. The QS is a control person, strong demeanor personality, and to make tough decision you can't be emotionally attached. That level of decision making is driven by that kind of emotional maturity of the 8H.
My JC Sun card with Moon in it is a fun card, a lot of creative potential, and i find that to be true with me. I am a very curious creature and i love learning and teaching. Sometime the teacher becomes the student and the student becomes the teacher. My mind is like a sponge trying to absorb all the information out there. Jack alone starts a project, but he does not finish a project. For that you need the Queen and King and i do have both in my spread. That probably explains why i am always able to start a project and finish a project. I tend to accomplish what i want to accomplish...
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