Hi Ernst, others,
I have a question if there is a way to interact with a Me starved by Sa conjunction person ? Is there something a person with a delighted avastha planet can do in interactions to help another person with the same starved planet ? Esp, for Me since we use it all the time.
@mona "some frustration when I don't understand right awa" - i sensed this too though i cant be certain.
but i also observed some degree of healing possible when talking to them in a truly friendly manner.
Update : I was interacting with a Me stared by Sa person ; I have Me delighted by Ve, Ju, Su. It was extremely hard for me to interact cohesively with the person even with the knowledge of Sa starving Me.
So, I guess Sa conjunct really will be healed only when the karmic repurcussions are complete either by karma or devotion or prayer.
Hi, I have this conjunction in Capricorn. I don't know how to calculate the Shad Bala of them yet, but Vic DiCara's program calculated my Saturn to be my most positive planet and ranked 2nd in strength and Mercury is my least positive and least strong.
So from what I have gathered (lol), people with this have suffered when using their Mercury and now they do not use it so much. Therefore, they may not personally explore all of their options well. This is kind of funny because they also think they don't have all the information yet. They may be afraid to say the wrong thing. They have to be absolutely sure that their option is the correct one before acting on it. They may continue to do methods that are not proving to work only because they learned that method so to them it must be correct.
So if you feel the inspiration, I think a good way to help would be to lay out the options they are not considering and to encourage them to not only make mistakes but to adjust after the mistake, but don't expect them to listen to you ( mine is in the 9th house 🙂 ). If you can, get them to explain things out loud because they probably need that experience lol. In school I was lucky to have fooled myself into being a teaching assistant which helped me to actually learn what I had written down in my notes. Growing up I probably spent too much time on things with correct answers such as mathematics and not enough time on things that require experimentation.
yeah; i think there was something else also going on. shame was definitely involved too from the way they interacted.
this one was actually the other extreme; giving too much information. information that hurts them. the way they thought about their experiences and identified with it was too overwhelming for me.
i dont interact with them anymore now. but Me was also their AK and it was EX in D-9 with Ju. So I'm hoping their D-9 will kick in for them at some point.