Mars in cancer delighted example

Hi Everyone,

I saw Ernst's video on Mo delighting Ma in Cn yesterday. I had an unplanned conversation with my grade 10 crush a few hours later. I understood a lot of avasthas. I thought I'd share it here as an example. 

I have Ma in Cn in 7th; and barely any starvation from Me. So quite delighted Mars but DB in 7th. And Ve, Me, Ju, Su in Ge. 

It turns out we were both crushing on each other. But the circumstances were just not favorable to take it forward. Even when we spoke yesterday after years, I was feeling love in the experience. I checked her chart for fun after the call; she had Ve, Me in Aq without the Sun. No wonder we got along so well. The compatibility on Moons was bomb too (in a positive way) without afflictions.

So, here I was operating in a very low circumstance but delighted. The conversation also showed how planets in D-7 operated. I have a DB saturn in D-9. But in D-7; Mo in Ta in 7th and rasi aspected by Ve, Sa in Libra. I told her that I have not felt much negative experience in talking to girls. She said ya, you will never feel negative because you see good in whoever you talk to. And if it doesn't vibe for you, you dont get in. That was my ahaa moment! about how Mo in Ta works. 

It was a short, beautiful experience. Now I understand what delight on lajjitadi level means, and the that DB of a delighted planet shows that the situation is low, and wont manifest easily, but Ma still needs to go there and have an experience.