Hi Ernst and group – in Video #66 you don’t mention the result of Venus in her own sign conjunct the debilitated Sun. I’m thinking the balance of power would shift to Venus and so the person would be able to have long-term relationships provided there was much room for autonomy and they could keep their bossy parental mind in check. What please have you found?
Blessings, Julli
Obviously Ernst should answer this, and hopefully he will. Until then, and for what it´s worth:
No, Venus does not fair well with the Sun. It gets agitated. You can learn more about that in the Mastering the Lajjitaadi avasthas course.
Basically: A false idea what compatibility means. Not realizing that it´s about being complementary, not that your partner should be a copy of yourself, sharing the exact same values and even habits. Intolerance with your partner. Like a vegan not accepting the idea of their partner eating meat. Having far too many and unrealistic "icks", basically.
Venus strives for fair trade, 50/50-type of relationships. But Sun wants to create a kingdom, based on who he is. So Venus starved by the Sun is a Venus that wants to create a kingdom and forgets about the 50/50-principle. Meaning that the partner, to a degree, is seen as it´s subordinate, or a guest in his kingdom.
Staffan
