yes, exatly, we really have to make sure that the 11th house price is not to high. That's why its considered a secondary dusthana, 12th from 12th, and 6th from 6th, its easy to pay to much and work too hard for things and then, did it really matter?!
the 11th lord is always evil, as is the 3rd and 6th though for some asc this rule is modified. And to learn to use this correctly you have to study the raja yogas part of the Yoga Judgment course. Its evil in the context of being able to block kendra kona raja yogas. but its good for the 11th, and so if its exalted, its very good fro the 11th and the 11th gets a lot of value, worth, on the things it gets and is very happy to have p aid the price. If the 11th lord is DB, or otherwise bad, its the opposite.
We can't abandon any house. Houses with planets are more important. 12th house is what we loose, what we give up, our expenses.
11th is our goals, what we most want, what we are striving for. That has a cost, that is the 12th house aspect of the 11th. Nothing in the 11th is FREE, we are going to pay for it with time, money, energy, make personal sacrifices for it, etc. If the 11th is good, the realization of the goal is wirth the cost, if the 11th is bad, the cost is greater than the realization of the goal and life does not really get much better despite the cost.
THe 12th house is the expense of our general lives, of the path we are on, the path we are on being the asc. The cost we pay to go through our lives.
ERnst
The other day my clairvoyant wife channelled a higher being telling us not to fall in the trap of striving for fame.
How the reasoning above resonates with me! I have an epicly trashed 11th house and have had a hard time finding recognition in the areas where I shine. It´s not easy with Rahu and a DB Saturn there, I ensure you!
And now, being married to this incredible woman with a healing practice and having a deep, though humble purpose with my life, I can see the exact meaning of what you are saying: You pay a high price for any worldly success. I would not get much satisfaction out of it.
I now see my trashed 11th house as a grace in disguise. Even though I realize that I may sound like the fox and the grapes: "I don´t want them, they are sour!" 😆
Staffan i will contact you. Sorry i have been so busy with work
tuyet