Hi Ernst and everyone,
I am listening to a compatibility course and it is so interesting! I do have a question though, I know you say that the Nakshatras between the moons are the most important and other planets are secondary.. However, it made me wonder.. I did have a partner who's moon is in Punarvasu, I have Sun, Venus, Mars, Uranus and Neptune in Utara Ashada.. We had SO many obstacles in our relationship... Firstly, we are from different countries, so we had difficulties staying in each others countries because of the visa, then the pandemic hit, we decided not to take the vaccines so we were bouncing around, looking for countries that allow us to stay there without vaccines and where he would be allowed to stay because of his visa as well, solving rubics cube basically.. Then we broke up.. When we decided to meet again, the guy, just before getting into a plane to see me, twisted his back so he barely made it into a plane... We also got constantly sick... It just seems like the whole universe was against us.. I shared this because I find this very interesting.. What are your thoughts on that? Do you think this might be Vedha Dosha effect?
It could be some kind of vedha, but you have venus with sun and mars and thats not easy. Always start with looking at each person's chart to see what issues are there in each chart. The compatibility will simply reflect that, you need a match that reflects more of the good stuff. The fact that he blew his back out getting onto a plain shows me that he is having a lot of repressed anger over some critical things in his life. When a relationshp does not line up, its ONLY because the two people are not aligned in themselves. Then they can attract a vedha person, or not, if not, once they get aligned in themselves the realtionship will work. If vedha is present, it simply means they are not going to get aligned during the phase of thier life that they are with that person. Its not becasue of the person, vedha simply reflects the life. I suggest taking my new course, PAC in astrology, with covers all this.